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This saying is misattributed to Twain. Its actual origin is Christian Nestell Bovee, a 19th-century American writer, who published a version in his Thoughts, Feelings, & Fancies (1857) — more than half a century before the quote was ever linked to Twain. Bovee's phrasing used "dumb" (mute) and "deaf" rather than "blind" and "deaf." The misattribution began circulating in self-help books in the 1990s and spread widely through social media in the 2000s. The Center for Mark Twain Studies lists it among their "Apocryphal Twain" entries.