"A man who cannot command himself shall not command others."
— Cornelius Vanderbilt
A Man Who Cannot Command Himself
A man who cannot command himself shall not command others.
About this quote
Attributed to Vanderbilt in biographical accounts. Despite his reputation for ruthlessness in business, Vanderbilt was known among his associates for personal discipline — he was a competitive horseman and maintained physical vigor into old age. The maxim reflects a recurring theme in Gilded Age business culture: that personal mastery was a prerequisite for exercising authority over others.
Source
Attributed, reported in Vanderbilt biographies