"It is more useful to watch a man in times of peril, and in adversity to discern what kind of man he is; for then at last words of truth are drawn from the depths of his heart."
— Lucretius
It Is More Useful To Watch
It is more useful to watch a man in times of peril, and in adversity to discern what kind of man he is; for then at last words of truth are drawn from the depths of his heart.
About this quote
From Book III of De Rerum Natura, in Lucretius's extended argument against the fear of death. In times of danger, he observes, the masks of social performance fall away and a person's true character is exposed. The observation served his broader Epicurean argument: wealthy and powerful people who fear death have, in their unguarded moments, revealed that their lives are fundamentally hollow — built on anxiety rather than genuine contentment. Only the philosopher who has understood and accepted mortality can face crisis without the self-betraying words that crisis wrings from others.
Source
De Rerum Natura, Book III (c. 55 BC)