"He who wishes to revenge injuries by reciprocal hatred will live in misery. But he who endeavors to drive away hatred by means of love, fights with pleasure and confidence."
— Baruch Spinoza
He Who Wishes To Revenge Injuries
He who wishes to revenge injuries by reciprocal hatred will live in misery. But he who endeavors to drive away hatred by means of love, fights with pleasure and confidence.
About this quote
From Part IV of the Ethics (1677), Proposition 46 and its proof. Baruch Spinoza argues that hatred can only be overcome by love — specifically, by understanding the causes that generate hatred and responding with a generous emotion that is itself self-reinforcing. Returning hatred with hatred merely increases conflict and diminishes the rational power of both parties. Spinoza's argument here drew on his geometric method: he claims to demonstrate the practical superiority of love over hatred as surely as a mathematician proves a theorem.
Source
Ethics, 1677