"Experience is not what happens to a man; it is what a man does with what happens to him."
— Aldous Huxley
Experience Is Not What Happens To
Experience is not what happens to a man; it is what a man does with what happens to him.
About this quote
This line appears in Huxley's anthology Texts and Pretexts (1932), a collection of poetry with accompanying essays and reflections. Huxley distinguished between passive experience — things that happen to us — and active experience — how we interpret and transform those events. The formulation reflects his broadly Stoic and Buddhist-influenced view that inner response matters more than outer circumstance.
Source
Texts and Pretexts, 1932